RCCG LOWER JUNIOR ZEAL FOR 2023/2024 – AGE 16-19 TEACHER’S MANUAL – SUNDAY 29TH OF DECEMBER, 2024 – LESSON EIGHTEEN (18) – TOPIC: HOME TRAINING: MANNERS AND SOCIAL ETIQUETTE
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RCCG LOWER JUNIOR ZEAL FOR 2023/2024
AGE 16-19 TEACHER’S MANUAL
SUNDAY 29TH OF DECEMBER, 2024
LESSON EIGHTEEN (18)
TOPIC: HOME TRAINING: MANNERS AND SOCIAL ETIQUETTE
BIBLE TEXT: Proverbs 22:6
[6]Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.
Deuteronomy 32:46-47
[46]And he said unto them, Set your hearts unto all the words which I testify among you this day, which ye shall command your children to observe to do, all the words of this law.
[47]For it is not a vain thing for you; because it is your life: and through this thing ye shall prolong your days in the land, whither ye go over Jordan to possess it.
MEMORY VERSE: Matthew 7:12 “Therefore all things whatsoever ye would that men should do to you, do ye even so to them: for this is the law and the prophets”.
LESSON AIM: To teach young persons the importance of good home training particularly manners and etiquette.
INTRODUCTION: As you navigate the journey of growing up, one essential aspect often overlooked is manners and etiquette, especially within the confines of your home. Understanding and practicing etiquette can bring harmony and respect to your family life. Matthew 7:12 is often interpreted as the Golden Rule, emphasizing treating others the way you would want to be treated, which is a cornerstone of good etiquette and moral conduct. So, what exactly is etiquette, and why does it matter?
OUTLINES
A. BASIC DEFINITION
B.IMPORTANCE OF ETIQUETTE
C. TYPE OF ETIQUETTE
D. SOME HOME ETIQUETTE TIPS.
A BASIC DEFINITIONS:
- What is manner?
Manner is a person’s outward bearing in the way of behaving towards others. - What is Etiquette?
Etiquette is more than just a set of rules that dictates what our behaviors and manners should be like. It is what draws the line between people with good manners and people who behave irresponsibly everywhere. Etiquette and manners go hand-in-hand. In simple terms, etiquette refers to proper way of doing things in a given setting. - What is home training? Gen 18:19
Home training refers to the upbringing or education a person receives at home, particularly in terms of manners, behavior and values instilled by the family. It is about learning proper conduct, respect and social skills within the home environment.
B. IMPORTANCE OF ETIQUETTE
i. It helps to make good first impressions which are important for jobs, good service, influence, and preaching the gospel.
ii. It helps to give good perception (appearance), as this is what is seen by people (Proverbs 17:28; Ecclesiastes 5:3). Illustration of the value of a container as a reflection of the value of the content. A dull man dressed well is perceived as smarter. Which man is hirable? The sloppy or the refined one?
iii. It teaches you to listen to the opinions of others especially elders which can save your life. (1Kings 12:13-14).
iv. It gives you an edge over your peers.
v. It teaches you to adjust to situations, environments and people. E.g. Joseph, Ruth, David, Daniel, and Esther adjusted to situations and took their various kingdoms! Copy them!
C. TYPES OF ETIQUETTE
i. Social Etiquette: How we interact with family members and guests, including greetings, conversation manners, and respecting personal space.
ii Table Etiquette: Proper behavior during meals, such as using utensils correctly, chewing with your mouth closed, and expressing gratitude for the food and company.
iii. Digital Etiquette: Respecting screen time boundaries, avoiding distractions during family time, and being mindful of online behavior and its impact on others.
iv. Home etiquette: Home etiquette refers to the polite and respectful behaviors expected of someone in a home or domestic setting. This can include things like removing shoes upon entering, respecting personal space, using good manners at the dinner table, and cleaning up after oneself. It’s essentially about being considerate and mindful of others in a domestic setting.
D. SOME HOME ETIQUETTE TIPS YOU SHOULD KNOW AND OBSERVE
i. Lead by Example: Observe how your parents or guardians demonstrate good manners and follow their lead.
ii. Practice Respect: Treat family members with kindness and consideration, even when disagreements arise.
iii. Communicate Effectively: Listen actively, express yourself respectfully, and resolve conflicts calmly and constructively.
iv. Help with Chores: Pitch in with household chores without being asked, showing initiative and responsibility.
v. Respect Privacy: Knock before entering someone’s room and respect their personal space and belongings.
vi. Express Gratitude: Show appreciation for the efforts of family members and express gratitude for everyday blessings.
CONCLUSION: As teenagers, practicing manners and etiquette at home lays the foundation for respectful and harmonious relationships in all areas of your life. So, strive to follow biblical principle by treating others with love and respect, and actively practicing good manners. This would create a positive and nurturing environment within your family and beyond.
QUESTION:
What Happens When You Lack home etiquette? (Discuss).
DAILY DEVOTIONAL
Sunday: Mark 15:16-30
Monday: Mark 15:31-47
Tuesday: Mark 16:1-10
Wednesday: Mark 16:11-20
Thursday: Luke 1:1-15
Friday: Luke 1:16-30
Saturday: Luke 1:31-45
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