RCCG LOWER JUNIOR ZEAL FOR 2023/2024 – AGE 9-12 TEACHER’S MANUAL – SUNDAY 29TH OF DECEMBER, 2024 – LESSON EIGHTEEN (18) – TOPIC: HOME TRAINING: MANNERS AND SOCIAL ETIQUETTE

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RCCG LOWER JUNIOR ZEAL FOR 2023/2024
AGE 9-12 TEACHER’S MANUAL
SUNDAY 29TH OF DECEMBER, 2024
LESSON EIGHTEEN (18)
TOPIC: HOME TRAINING: MANNERS AND SOCIAL ETIQUETTE

BIBLE TEXT: Deuteronomy 32:46-47
[46]And he said unto them, Set your hearts unto all the words which I testify among you this day, which ye shall command your children to observe to do, all the words of this law.
[47]For it is not a vain thing for you; because it is your life: and through this thing ye shall prolong your days in the land, whither ye go over Jordan to possess it.

MEMORY VERSE: Proverb 22:6, “Train up a child in the way he should go and when he is old he will not depart from it”

LESSON AIM: To let the children know how important is home training.

CENTRAL TRUTH: Godly manners are about courtesy, politeness, etiquette, customs, correctness, respectability and a more excellent way of life.

INTRODUCTION: Etiquette is the customary code (specific rules) of polite behaviour within a culture, society or professional group. It makes one behave in a socially responsible way distinct from animals. When a child knows and follows respected rules for behaviour, we say that child has good etiquette or manners. The Bible equally advises us as believers to apply decency and orderliness in whatever we do (1Corinthians 14:40). Hence, it is necessary for children to be guided in their dealings and interactions with others. In recent years many people have criticized the decline of etiquette and manners in our world. To many, it seems that society has grown accustomed to things that would have been considered incredibly rude only a decade or so before. Our manners express our personality, especially as they portray humility, courtesy, or gentleness. Now we must display the work of salvation, involving the etiquette and courtesy shown in the behavior of our Savior. Today we are going to look at the social etiquette in our children and how to build our children in the right way that God will be pleased.

STUDY GUIDE
A. WHAT ARE ETIQUETTE?
Having good etiquette shows respect for others and their cultures, values, and beliefs. By being mindful of others’ feelings, beliefs, and expectations, we can create more positive and harmonious relationships.

Here are 10 etiquette rules that everyone should master:

1. Use Proper Greetings: Always greet people with a smile and a hello.
2. Say “Please” And “Thank You”: These are basic manners that show gratitude and respect. Always say “please” when making a request and “thank you” when receiving help from others.
3. Practice Good Table Manners: This includes using utensilis property. keeping your elbow’s off the table, and chewing with your mouth closed
   4 Be Mindful Of Your Language: Avoid using foul language, especially in public places or around children. Use polite and respectful tanguage at all times
4. Respect Personal Space: Don’t stand too close to people, and always ask before touching someone. Be aware of your surroundings and respect people’s privacy.
5. Dress Appropriately: Dress appropriately for the occasion and location, taking into account the dress code and cultural norms.
6. Be A Good Listener: Pay attention to what people are saying and show interest in their opinions. Avoid interrupting or dominating the conversation.
7. Put Your Phone Away: Avoid using your phone or other electronic devices when in the presence of others, especially during a conversation or meeting
8. Practice Good Communication: Be clear and concise when communicating with others. Avoid using slang or jargon that may be unfamiliar to the other person.
9. Be Punctual: Show respect for other people’s time by being punctual for appointments and meetings. If you’re running late, let the other person know as soon as possible.

Examples of Bad Manners

1. Disrespecting older people. Leviticus 19:32
2. Complaining, and saying evil things about parents. Exodus 21:17
3. Not being cheerful or smiling while witnessing or talking to people. Prov. 15:13; Prov. 18:24
4. Not appreciating what others do for you Colossians 3:15
5. Taking, using, or demanding things, instead of asking Luke 11:9-10.
6. Always being late; not Being on Time.
7. Allowing children to interrupt events (meals, praying, worship, etc.)

B. THE NEED FOR ETIQUETTE

1. People around us must not feel embarrassed by our behavior. One should not behave irrationally or illogically in public.
2. Without etiquette, members of society would be impatient and disrespect one another (1 Peter 3:8).
3. Etiquette makes you a cultured individual who leaves his mark wherever he goes
4. It teaches you the way to eat, talk, walk and most importantly behave in the society (Proverbs 23.1-2. Colossians 4:5-6. Titus 3:2)
5. It is essential for an everlasting first impression (Philippians 4:5a). The way you interact with your superiors, parents, fellow workers, friends speak a lot about your personality and up-bringing (Proverbs 18:24)
6. Etiquette enables the individuals to eam respect and appreciation in the society (Luke 6:31)
7. It inculcate a feeling of trust and loyalty in the individuals. One becomes more responsible and mature. Etiquette helps individuals to value relationship (Proverbs 25:17)
8. It is a way to remove social barriers and created connection with people who needs to hear the gospel. (1 Corinthians 9:22: 10:31, 1Peter 3:15)

CONCLUSION: We are not advocating the above as new rules, laws, or commandments. As Christians, we understand that we should be a light to shine in this dark world, good manners help promote peace and give believers a chance to be a true light and draw attention to Christ (Matthew 5:14-16), for “God is not the author of confusion (disorder) but of peace” (1 Corinthians 14.33).

LIFE APPLICATION: Have you been displaying bad manners, hurting others, and therefore dishonoring them while displeasing God? If so, seek the Lord in repentance and ask Him to change your heart and attitude.

INVITATION: Jesus is calling you today unto salvation.

DAILY DEVOTIONAL
SUNDAY: EPHESIANS 6:9-16
MONDAY: EPHESIANS 6:17-24
TUESDAY: PHILIPPIANS 1.1-8
WEDNESDAY: PHILIPPIANS 1:9-16
THURSDAY: PHILIPPIANS 1:17-24
FRIDAY: PHILIPPIANS 1:25-30
SATURDAY: PHILIPPIANS 2:1-8

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