RCCG SUNDAY SCHOOL STUDENT’S MANUAL – Y.A.Y.A. EDITION – LESSON: TWENTY-FIVE – DATE: SUNDAY 19TH FEBRUARY 2023 – TOPIC: MARRIAGE HAS A PRICE
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RCCG SUNDAY SCHOOL STUDENT’S MANUAL – Y.A.Y.A. EDITION – LESSON: TWENTY-FIVE – DATE: SUNDAY 19TH FEBRUARY 2023 – TOPIC: MARRIAGE HAS A PRICE
TOPIC: MARRIAGE HAS A PRICE
SUNDAY SCHOOL HYMN
- O Sunday School, on the Lord’s day,
O how I love Thee well,
I am happy, it makes me glad
To rejoice at Thy birth. - O Sunday School, on the Lord’s day,
Thy friend friendship suits me well,
Both young and will sing Thy song,
We long for Sunday School. - O Sunday School, on the Lord’s day,
Christ was Thy first teacher,
The Holy Spirit, great teacher,
Does manifest in thee. - O Sunday School, on the Lord’s day,
This testimony is sure,
That God, the Father Almighty,
Poured His blessing on Thee - O Sunday School, on the Lord’s day,
Though the sun be so bright,
Or if the clouds be black with rain,
I’ll be in Sunday School. - O Sunday School, on the Lord’s day,
I rejoice to see Thee,
Will thou pass over me today?
Without my being blest?
MEMORY VERSE: “And the Lord God said, “It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a helper comparable to him”. — Genesis 2:18 (NKJV)
BIBLE PASSAGE: EPHESIANS 5:22-33
22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
INTRODUCTION
Marriage is a wonderful institution ordained by God for the good of humanity. However, just as every item of purchase has a price tag on it, marriage is not different. There are sacrifices and commitments to be put in place for a successful marriage.
LESSON OUTLINE
- FEATURES OF A GOOD MARRIAGE
- PRICES TO PAY
FEATURES OF A GOOD MARRIAGE
A good marriage is peaceful. This is not the absence of storms (Luke 8:23) but because Jesus, the Prince of peace, dwells in the couple; the peace of God that passes all understanding is evident in the marriage (Ephesians 2:14; Phillipians 4:7). Joy is also apparent; this joy is however not dependent on ephemeral things of life alone (Romans 15:13; Galatians 5:22). The free flow of forgiveness between a couple signifies a good union (Matthew 6:14). Honouring God and His word is a healthy union (Job 23:11-12, Psalm 119:2-3) as such couples are relieved of unnecessary tensions and confusion. Having a high opinion and being courteous to each other is a characteristic of a good marriage relationship (1Peter 3:6-7). A high level of respect exhibited by couples for each other depicts a noble marriage. Always doting on each other is a good sign of a good marriage (Genesis 26:8). Through knowledge of each other in all areas is important; that means ‘there is nothing to hide’ (Proverbs 13:16). Sustaining the friendship started in courtship shows a good marriage thus the couple enjoys the company of each other (Proverbs 5:18-19).
PRICES TO PAY
A good marriage comes with a high cost which is beyond the cost of an exotic wedding garment or ring. This cost would be paid with a lot of determination, hard work, and prayers. Some of the prices to pay include:
- Giving up on individualism in order to achieve unity of purpose, especially in the areas of finance and work balance. (1Corinthians 3:3; Psalm 133:1-3).
- Discarding all selfish behaviours.
- Being open to each other. Stop hiding necessary information that should be made available to your spouse (Proverbs 27:5, Amos 3:3). Openness relieves the home of speculations and suspicious.
- The sole belief and use of ‘my’ should be consciously changed to ‘our children’ ‘our responsibilities’ etc. (1Corinthians 4:6-7).
- Couples should develop a strong link and stick together in their drives and accomplishments in order to have each other’s back (Song of Solomon 1:14; 2:16).
- Couples must always yield to God through obedience to His word and saying ‘yes’ to His will (Psalm 119:11). The flesh must give way to the Spirit (Galatians 2:20; Galatians 5:19, 22).
- Be intentional to make sure your marriage works because a successful marriage requires a lot of commitments (Ecclesiastes 9:9).
CONCLUSION
It will take a daily life of sacrifice and commitment to have a good marriage. Are you ready to pay the price?
QUESTIONS
- Mention four feature of a good marriage
- Mention five price to pay to have a good marriage
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