Topic: Your Kids Need Your Compassion[RICK WARREN Devotional 24 AUGUST 2024]
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Your Kids Need Your Compassion
by Rick Warren — August 24, 2024
From Growing in the Seasons of Life
“Let us love one another, for love comes from God.”
1 John 4:7 (NIV)
If you want to know how to be a good parent and build a strong family, you don’t have to search online or go to a bookstore. Look no further than the greatest book ever written on parenting: God’s Word, the Bible.
The Bible says in 1 John 4:7, “Let us love one another, for love comes from God” (NIV).
More than anything else, kids need unwavering and unconditional love. There needs to be a place where they’re accepted just as they are, without question, including all of their faults.
What is compassion? Compassion is a combination of love and understanding. Compassion is where you know everything about someone and you still like that person.
Love is not natural. You have to learn to love. And you learn to love by practicing. What better place to practice than with the people you’re forced to live with all your life? If you can learn to love your family, you can love anybody. Why? Because it’s easy to love people at a distance, but when you’re with them all the time, you don’t always get along. When you practice love in the family, you’re learning to truly love.
This is a common thing: we love our kids, but we don’t express it in a way they can understand. Children understand love in three ways: affection, affirmation, and attention.
1. Affection. Children need lots of hugs and kisses, pats on the back, holding of hands, cuddles and more. They need to feel your love.
2. Affirmation. You need to tell your kids every day—and more than once a day—how much you love them. Affirm them and build them up with love.
3. Attention. One of the greatest gifts you can give others is listening to them. When you look at children on their level, you’re saying, “You matter to me. You’re important to me. I want to hear what you have to say.” In doing this, you show compassion.
Talk It Over
- In what different ways do you see your children express and receive love?
- What routines or habits can you practice so that you are showing your kids affection, affirmation, and attention every day?
- If you don’t have children, what is your responsibility to the children in your life, such as nieces and nephews, neighbors, or the children of friends?
God shows his compassion for you through Jesus
God proved his compassion for you through his Son, Jesus Christ. The Bible says, “For God loved the world in this way: He gave his one and only Son, so that everyone who believes in him will not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him. Anyone who believes in him is not condemned, but anyone who does not believe is already condemned, because he has not believed in the name of the one and only Son of God” (John 3:16–18 CSB).
Are you ready to trust God to fulfill his promise of eternal life? If so, start by praying this simple prayer: “Dear God, I believe Jesus Christ is your Son. I confess I have sinned, and I ask for your forgiveness. I believe that Jesus died to take away my sins and that you raised him to life. I want to trust Jesus as my Savior and follow him as Lord from this day forward. Guide my life and help me to do your will. In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen.”
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